Starting Truck Driver Career And Have Questions About… Sex… + Other?

Hello everyone. I am 26 and starting my truck driver career. But I have some questions and I can’t find any info online on these subjects.
1. How do truck drivers get girls and have sex? I know that there are prostitures at truck stops, but I don’t want that. I mean, is there are other ways besides paying for it? Would love to hear stories that explain how you guys do it. Oh, also, I want to drive across USA so I’m not coming home to see GF, which I don’t even have now. I can’t live without girls for more than a week, lol.
2. Can you guys refuse to go to certain states? Like if you have a trip to CA and you don’t want to go there?
Many thanks!